HOTWIFE A married woman who has the freedom in her marriage to pursue sex with men other than her husband. Her husband has full knowledge of her activities and consents to them. CUCKOLD A man who encourages his wife to sleep with other people and derives pleasure from her activities. Cuckolds exist on a spectrum between two extremes: the masochistic or submissive cuckold who enjoys humiliation, degradation and other demeaning activities at the hands of his wife and her lovers, and the alpha cuckold (for want of a better name) who does not enjoy any form of humiliation and often has a direct say in who his wife sleeps with and when. The following includes “hotwifing” as a subset of cuckold activities, with “hotwifing” and “cuckolding” (or “cuckoldry”) as interchangeable terms whenever the man’s motivations are on the alpha-cuck end of the spectrum. THE SCIENCE OF CUCKOLD AND HOTWIFE MARRIAGES As studies of human sexuality have emerged, it has become arguable that a cuckold relationship is by far the most compatible with basic human biological make up. It is straying from this evolutionarily- grounded human bonding relationship that has produced such misunderstandings and conflict between the sexes. At the base of this principle is the understanding of a woman’s need for a variety of sex partners. Women are hardwired differently than men. A woman has a dual sex drive. The first is centered on finding a mate for life to help support her and Page of 1 54 her offspring. This is why (and when) love is such an important part of a women’s sexual desire. The second is a desire to obtain a variety of the best genetic material to produce the healthiest children. This second desire becomes stronger once a woman has secured her life mate, and grows stronger as time with him progresses. Eventually, this more powerful drive can exceed her sexual desire for her life mate. This is essentially why a woman’s sexual desire for her husband is well known to diminish over time. At the same time, it is normal for her to feel a very real increase in her sexual desire for other men. With the creation of a stable home environment in which to raise her children, there is a physiological shift toward a woman’s desire to mate with the best men available to her, for their contribution of superior and more diverse genetic material. This does not make her immoral, or mean that she no longer loves her husband. It is simply part of her basic instinctive code. Contrary to societal views, sexual differences between men and women also seem to support the cuckold relationship as one ideal for a marital relationship. Women don’t reach their sexual peak until they are in their thirties or later, while men peak by the time they are twenty. In a typical marriage, a wife is generally younger than her husband or the same age. As a result, a woman’s increasing sexual appetite, as she enjoys her peak sexual years, gives her different sexual needs than her husband. She needs more sexual encounters, longer sexual encounters and more orgasms than her spouse. Her older or same-age husband, on the other hand, sometimes lasts a shorter time before he reaches orgasm, or faces declining ability. As a marriage continues, this discrepancy in sexual needs increases, often to the point of a wife secretly finding a lover or lovers outside the marriage. Nature reinforces this physical need by providing women with the ability to experience a far greater quantity, intensity, and variety of orgasms than men. This Page of 2 54 is nature’s way of motivating a woman to seek sexual activity with others. Women experience a diversity of orgasms, including clitoral and vaginal. Additionally, women have the ability for multiple orgasms. Besides the orgasmic pleasure derived from manual, oral and coital stimulation of the clitoris, all three of which feel distinctly different, a woman can reach a completely different sensation of pleasure and a completely different orgasm from the stimulation of her g- spot by a well-endowed man, especially one with the stamina and technique to bring her to repeated orgasms before his own ejaculation, plus the ability to recover quickly between ejaculations. A woman can also reach orgasm by proper stimulation of her nipples if she has been brought to a state of intense clitoral arousal: stimulation of her nipples and clitoris at the same time will give her a yet another unique orgasm. Her ultimate height of pleasure is found in oral or manual stimulation of her clitoris while simultaneously having her g-spot stimulated. It is telling that this is best accomplished by the use of multiple sexual partners, suggesting nature’s preference for male, female, male couplings. Finally, the pinnacle of a woman’s sexual superiority is her ability to have multiple orgasms and full body orgasmic experiences. While multiple orgasm is often assumed to be the result of efforts by the woman's partner, it is likely that this trait is actually a natural function designed to allow a woman to enjoy sex with multiple partners over a short period of time. On the other hand, men are far simpler sexually. His sex drive will simply grow stronger the longer he goes without sex, with a singular orgasm resulting. Since he needs a consenting female in order to engage in sex, his sexual desire for her is directly linked her consent. While men can get nearly the same level of satisfaction from masturbating as from a penetrative sex act with a woman, women require the participation of a capable sex partner in order to be more fully satisfied, both physically and emotionally. Page of 3 54 There have been several clinical studies documenting positive emotional responses to the presence of semen in the vagina. The studies suggest that certain hormones contained in the seminal deposit illicit both physical and emotional changes in a woman's hormone levels. While not completely understood, these studies do support the idea that a woman's most satisfying sexual experiences result from unprotected intercourse with at least one male. Given that a married woman’s response to her own husband’s semen has become diminished, it follows that her greatest sexual and emotional satisfaction will result from sexual intercourse with other men, who ejaculate into her. One might think these conditions present arguments for an open marriage in which a wife and her husband both find sexual partners outside their marriage. But the idea of open marriage assumes the erroneous notion that men require a variety of sex partners, and that women are tolerant of their men mating with others. However, neither assumption is typical. While the evidence clearly suggests that a married woman is instinctively inclined to seek a variety of sexual partners, a man has a sexual drive that can be satisfied by a single partner. The genetic programming that drives a man is based on the thrill of pursuit, not the need for variety. Men are designed to compete. They compete in every aspect of life, not only in their workplace, but in their hobbies, for example sporting events. Most importantly though, men compete for their females. Husbands whose desire for their wives have waned can be completely reversed with the introduction of a competing male. Once a husband feels these competitive forces awaken within him, he becomes singularly focused on pleasing his wife, and seeking her approval and sexual consent. This is a simple concept that drives the cuckold relationship. A wife can use that competition to help mold a sexual relationship that proves sexually satisfying to both of them, while insuring relationship stability and her husband's fidelity all at the same time. The involvement of other men into the relationship has another benefit, other than the obvious sexual benefits to the wife and the resultant stability to the relationship. Some husbands expressed relief that their wife was being sexually satisfied by others, being relieved of the pressure to perform as her primary sex partner. The older the husband becomes, the more this motivation is mentioned. Women can rediscover a side of themselves they thought was lost, becoming more centered, calm and confident in both themselves and their marriage. Similarly, once husbands get past their initial concerns, they become calmer and more Page of 4 54 focused on the relationship. Rather than seeking the temptation of satisfaction outside the marriage, they soon derive all their sexual needs from and through their wife and her extramarital liaisons. Cuckold or hotwife marriages can evolve into a great variety of preferences, ranging from those in which wives enjoy dating in private, to those who enjoy having sex with other men in front of her husband, and just about everything in between. BENEFITS OF CUCKOLDING In most cases, cuckolding is based on trust, intimacy and loyalty. The wife freely has sex with a variety of men while the husband remains faithful to her. Thus, he’s considered in a sexually subordinate position. Sometimes these dynamics can be quite difficult. But it still offers numerous benefits for both partners. A woman with multiple sex partners is naturally more attractive to her husband than a monogamous woman, and thus, the wife becomes hotter, more precious and more alluring to her husband. The knowledge of his wife having had sex with other men makes the husband sexually potent and energized like never before. Human biology will ensure that the husband produces more sperm in order to compete, and has better orgasms, in order to increase the chance that it is his genes which are transferred into the children of his wife. In a good marriage, the wife’s pleasure should be paramount for the husband. If the woman conceives and bears children through cuckolding, an excellent idea in the right circumstances, it can also achieve the biological & genetic purpose of passing on better genes to the progeny. A woman is able to choose men with the best genes to mate, to pass them on to her children. A woman can even have sex with many men at once in order to let the man with the best genes impregnate her. Page of 5 54 Hotwifing or cuckolding is one of the top male fantasies, and is often the answer to many women's hidden or undiscovered desires. Potential benefits include: • Fulfillment of lifelong fantasies for one or both in the couple • Freedom for a wife to enjoy the company of the opposite sex • The husband can address and be freed from most feelings of jealousy • Increased communication and trust • Increased faithfulness and reduced thoughts of infidelity • The husband feels he has the hottest woman in the world • Women gain the confidence and freedom to express themselves • Women realize their full potential for intimacy and fantasy • Variety and new excitement is enjoyed by the couple • Physical satisfaction is better attained, especially for the wife • The husband has an increased interest in his wife's clothing and looks Many couples in hotwife or cuckold arrangements want to avoid the rut others fall into, and for variations and excitement. Here are fun ways the wife can improve the experience of cuckolding for her and her husband: • Regularly make comments to your husband about other men you find attractive and tell him what it is about them that attracts you • During sex, remind your husband you prefer larger dicks (trust me, he'll like it) • Be very open with your husband about various things your lovers do better sexually • Tell your husband whenever you have thoughts of sex with someone else • Have your husband watch and help as you prepare yourself to go out on a date • Shave or pierce your pussy and tell your husband it's for another man Page of 6 54 • Have your husband bathe you, shave your legs and pussy, or pick out clothes, jewelry and perfume to get you ready for your dates • Get a body piercing, cut or color your hair, or do something else that alters your body. Tell your husband you did it for your lover • Buy a Hotwife ankle bracelet, and wear it any time you go out • Start wearing more sexy, revealing clothing, hose and high heels in public. Add super-short skirts, see-through blouses and new lingerie to your wardrobe. Switch to sluttier makeup and tell your husband you're doing it to attract men • Stop wearing underwear when you go out , and make sure your husband knows • Flirt more! Flirt when you're out alone. But also openly flirt with other men in front of your husband, including at bars and clubs • Put an ad on an adult website, seeking suitable men for your liaisons • Have your husband go down on you while you watch cheating-wife or cuckold porn. Tell him you wish you were the woman in the movie • Have your husband get a hotel room for you and your lover to use, then bring you the key before your date • Make your husband drive you and your lover around while you have sex in the back seat • Let your husband watch you have sex (be sure to enjoy the sex VERY much!) • Travel out of town for a weekend trip with another man • Call your husband on the phone during sex with another man and let him listen • Fuck another man in your marital bed • Perform a sex act with another man that you don't do often with your husband - like cum-swallowing, or anal intercourse. Then tell your husband what you did, or have him watch • Fuck another man while your husband is at work or out of town and let him know Page of 7 54 • Fuck another man while your husband is in the next room, listening • Fuck another man, film it and let your husband watch it later • When your husband watches you have sex, openly express how good it feels and how much better your lover is • Find another Hotwife and start going out together to find men • Fuck one of your mutual friends • Fuck a black man (or different ethnicity than you) • Fuck a much younger man • Fuck someone rich and powerful • Fuck an older man, or an authority figure like a police officer • Tease your husband by reminding him you could get pregnant by your lover • Go to an adult video booth with your husband and let him watch you suck a cock through a glory hole • Go to an adult theater with your husband and a lover • Accompany a lover to a local swingers club as a couple • Join your lover and a friend of his in a threesome (male or female) • Let your lover bend you over his knee and spank you, with your husband watching • Let your lover tie you up in bed and use you, with your husband watching Page of 8 54 • Have your husband pick out and pay for lingerie or a hot dress you will wear for your lover • Have phone sex with a lover, and have your husband watch as you masturbate and talk on the phone • Walk around your house naked before a date, but don’t allow your husband to have penetrative sex with you • After a date, masturbate in front of your husband while recounting all the details • Call or text your lovers in front of your husband and let him hear you say things like “you know you own it" • Fuck a lover while wearing your wedding dress • Have your husband perform oral on you after you have sex with someone else (“cleaning up his creampie”) • Compliment your lovers openly during sex, and be loud and vocal when you cum, making sure your husband hears everything • Be seen as a "couple" in public with a regular lover • Spend an entire night or weekend with a lover • Have your husband briefly perform oral sex on you as you prepare for a date, or immediately prior to departing, and make him promise to do it again the moment you return • See two different lovers on successive nights, or even on the same day • Let your lover bring over a friend of his to "share" you • Have group sex with several men • Participate in an orgy, or gangbang Page of 9 54 • Tell certain girlfriends that you fuck other men, then tell your husband you told them everything (watch him freak out!) • Make your husband lick your clit while another man is fucking you • Send texts, pics and vids to your husband when you're with a lover One of your dates can be lingerie shopping. As much as men don’t enjoy shopping, they do when it’s for sexy outerwear and lingerie you try on for them while shopping. Yes, it would be humbling for your husband to be brought along, but also erotic for him when he reflects on it, and empowering for your boyfriend. Imagine the stares, the giggles and the jealousy as other women watch you with two men – one obviously your husband and the one you’re most flirtatious with obviously not. At first your husband can watch the foreplay, the fondling, even as far as watching you fondle your lover’s cock through his pants or directly in your hands. You can direct him to help remove items of clothing as your boyfriend wants more access to your body, or simply let your husband watch as your boyfriend strips you of all clothing. At this point, you can include your husband more by extending the foreplay you enjoy outside the bedroom; get naked for your boyfriend sooner, take foreplay well beyond petting, all while your husband is present. Once this threshold is passed, your boyfriend will be more comfortable in his position, will begin to enjoy asserting himself with you and your husband and may be the one to call your husband into the bedroom to witness him entering you and fucking you hard. Page of 10 54 REASONS WHY CUCKOLDING CAN BE THE ULTIMATE WAY TO REIGNITE YOUR SEX LIFE Society has somewhat normalized a certain type of heterosexual relationship where a woman’s co- dependence on a man allows him to sleep around, so long as he comes home to her. The man’s behavior is often accepted because, sadly, a woman is sometimes still viewed as nothing more than a baby-making machine who’s lucky to be with the man she has, and accepts that he “needs” to sleep around because “boys will be boys”. Though it’s gained more mainstream popularity in recent years, cuckolding is an age- old practice which changes gears on this dynamic; call it eroticized betrayal, if you will. Before you jump to branding this lifestyle choice “crazy” or “weird”, step back and school yourself on the level of trust and communication required to make this type of relationship work successfully. It’s an intense bond that can spill over into other aspects of the relationship. Here are some things you should know about cuckolding before you judge. They may even spark your interest in trying it out for yourself. 1. IT’S EDUCATIONAL It’s easy to get stuck in a rut and do the same few things over and over when you’re in a long- term relationship. The benefits of cuckolding can be along the same lines as watching porn with your partner; you both might learn something new. Except instead of watching a random woman acting out a scripted scene, the man can watch the woman he loves give and receive pleasure in real time. In turn, she can also try new positions or ideas that she can later experience with her partner, or if her partner watches, he may learn different ways to turn to her on, too. 2. IT CAN BE CATHARTIC “I think it’s because I always felt a lot of rejection from girls as a young man, and even as I got older. I worry that the women I have close relationships with might leave me for other men, so acting it out in a controlled environment actually makes me feel safe” , says one male cuckold. While this may not be the healthiest approach to sexual exploration, and may even feed into one partner’s insecurities, it’s no less legitimate a way to address a man’s abandonment issues in a relationship. In this case, he’s self-aware and actually trying something. Page of 11 54 3. IT FOSTERS NON-JUDGMENT Because cuckolding pushes the boundaries of a traditional sexual relationship, it encourages both partners to be a lot less closed off to trying new things in bed. Being open-minded in the sack can help you break out of judgement cycles; things you may think are ‘weird’, ‘gross’ or ‘too kinky’ may be things you actually end up enjoying in practice. If you and your partner give it a shot, maybe it will work for you, maybe it won’t. But can’t that be said about anything? If all else fails, you have a new experience under your belt and may be less judgmental when you hear about a new uncharted sexual territory in future. 4. IT CAN BOOST YOUR CONFIDENCE “The fetish is often the man’s, not the woman’s. But that doesn’t mean cuckolding is all about him,” says Dr David J. Ley, author of Insatiable Wives: Women Who Stray and the Men Who Love Them “For couples who make this lifestyle work, the woman can also find excitement, fulfillment and stimulation from the sexual exploration of the taboo.” Having a partner who lets you unabashedly be yourself can be nourishing. Someone who’s fulfilled sexually will often have confidence that shows up in all types of relationships, whether it’s work, friendships, family, or their relationship with themselves. Some guys like the fact that their ‘hot wife’ is desired by other men, and some women find the fact that they’re desirable to other men extremely validating, especially in the face of warped media ideals about desirability. 5. IT LESSENS THE LIKELIHOOD OF SEXUAL FRUSTRATION For those who embrace the practice of cuckolding fully, claiming your own sexuality and being comfortable enough in your own skin to actually explore new sexual boundaries can help not only strengthen your sex life, but foster your personal growth, too. Being in touch with who you are and what you want can also help you connect with the right partner, whereas repressing common, healthy sexual urges often results in infidelity, depression, substance abuse, and more. This doesn’t necessarily mean all sexual urges are healthy, but as long as both adults are Page of 12 54 consenting to a sexual act and nobody’s getting hurt (unless they want to...), it’s perfectly okay to diverge into new sexual exploration. As psychiatrist Dhananjay Gambhire puts it, “A person’s inability to express his or her sexual impulses in a healthy way leads to sexual absenteeism, and is known as sexual repression.” 6. IT CAN ENHANCE YOUR COMMUNICATION AS A COUPLE Quality communication is required to have a successful relationship in general, but it’s particularly important for sexually progressive couples who engage in cuckolding. With proper communication, couples can build a solid foundation for the trajectory of their relationship. And having these sometimes uncomfortable conversations about one another’s true desires often means less infidelity, because each person in the relationship feels heard and satisfied with their partner. 7. IT LETS YOU TAKE YOUR FETISH TO THE NEXT LEVEL ”Many happy cuckolds are also voyeurs, and their wives or girlfriends might be exhibitionists,” explains Dr Susan Block, author of The Bonobo Way: The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure In essence, it’s is a great way for people who are already fetishists to take their fetish to another level. For example, exhibitionists who like to be watched are often turned on by having sex while their partner watches, while people who are already sexual voyeurs may like to be in the room while their partner fucks someon else, masturbating, or just being in their natural habitat. 8. IT’S A FORM OF HEALTHY MASOCHISM If you’re into the ‘M’ part of S&M, otherwise known as masochism (taking pleasure in receiving pain), cuckolding can be a new way to experience pleasurable pain and humiliation. For some reason, society ‘needs’ men to be the dominant ones in hetero relationships, but in reality, that simply doesn’t apply all the time, and only puts more pressure on the couple. Many men actually prefer submissive roles, and that’s celebrated, rather than frowned upon, in cuckolding. For those men, it offers an erotic kind of humiliation. Page of 13 54 9. THE WIFE CAN BLOOM Women love to be found attractive; what’s more, they love to be the woman of a strong and confident man. And by being a hotwife, she’s getting the best of both worlds - her lovers build her self-esteem because they find her highly attractive, and obviously you must be a strong and confident man to let her go out and spread her wings , so to speak. You’ll notice how she becomes more aware of herself, more sexually adventurous, and starts to take more pride in her appearance. REASONS WHY SEX WITH OTHERS IS SO GOOD FOR HOTWIVES • It feels nice. We all know it. Fucking feels fucking awesome and that it pretty much the only reason you need. It feels nice one with way with my husband, and it feels nice in a different way with other men. • It’s good exercise. And it’s cheaper than the gym! It keeps you fit, tones lots of lovely muscles and the more you do it the better endurance you have, the weirder positions you can try, and the hotter your body looks. It gets your heart going and your blood pumping too, which can only be a good thing • The possibilities are endless. There's sex with one person, two people or more people. There's sex with your husband or sex with any of the other millions of men out there. There’s missionary, doggie-style, cowgirl, reverse-cowgirl, wheelbarrow, 69ing, spooning, scissors, against a wall, on your stomach, tied up, in your car, in a tree, naked sex, dressed sex, oral sex, anal sex, natural sex, condom sex, everywhere, anywhere, sex, sex, sex to infinity. There's no limit to what you can do using your imagination! • It can be meaningless. Just a harmless exchange of releases to brighten your day. A way of making a new friend or making sure a new friend becomes a FWB. A better-than-a-wank, less-hassle-than-a-relationship FWB. And sex can be great when you’re drunk and horny and so is the other person. Or... • It can be meaningful. Something to seal with a kiss and express all of those emotions that you’ve got going on for your husband, or a way to express your friendship with a lover you have in your life • It can test you and push your boundaries. Really great sex, and kinky sex with someone who pushes you, can test your limits and make you question why you Page of 14 54 previously found some stuff unacceptable. It can make you a more accepting person and help you to learn more about yourself. It can help you discover pleasures you didn't know existed • It provides great conversation. In an academic setting or at the pub. With strangers or friends, does anyone NOT like to talk about sex? If you're meeting someone new for the first time, talking about the sex is a natural part of that first conversation. It can help break the ice and be a conversation point • It can create art or porn. No one really knows where the line is but both are pretty good (as long as everyone’s consenting and all that jazz). It can turn you on and give you ideas and make you think and make you horny • It boosts your self-esteem. Having sex with someone can make you feel so much better about yourself. Being able to get naked in front of a stranger or a new lover and have them compliment you (with words, a hard cock or their cum) is an instant lift to anyone’s psyche. This also applies to compliments on technique as well as physique • It can take your mind off things. It’s a great distraction method, stress-reliever, procrastination technique and all round great time to be had doing anything but what you have to do in life everyday. Getting away with a lover gives me a break from my routine at home • Anyone can do it. It’s universal, a natural part of human existence and in this world of privilege and poverty it seems brilliant that there’s one thing uniting us all. And that one thing is orgasms. We all have the need for orgasms in common! • It’s different every time. Variety is the spice of life. And whether you have sex with 100 different people or the same person 100 times, it's always different. If you have lovers outside your marriage I can guarantee that it’ll never be EXACTLY the same twice even with the same person. Those different experiences is what makes it exciting • It fits into any schedule. Two horny people will always find a way to make time for sex. A quickie in the bathroom, a session in the shower, before bed, in the Page of 15 54 middle of the night, before work, after work. Sex fits in around you and *your* needs. It’s giving like that • It’s a relationship lubricator. A lack of sex leads to friction. Sex lubricates everything and keeps the wheels humming • Practice makes perfect. The more you do it, the better it becomes CREATIVE IDEAS - BY AN EXPERIENCED BULL Over the years I have had the good fortune to live out many fantasies, some of my own creation and some were the ideas of others. Here are a few suggestions you may wish to include in your play with a couple: • Have the Hotwife suck you off in a semi-public place while the husband stands guard • Have the husband leave the room for periods of time while you are having sex with his wife • The first time you spend the night with the couple, awaken them through the night by crawling between the Hotwife’s legs and fucking her • Meet the Hotwife for a mid-day nooner, while the husband is at work • Record video of yourself and the Hotwife having sex, then send her home to her husband with it • Spend time socializing with the couple, perhaps watching a movie. But sit next to the Hotwife, kissing, teasing, groping and treating her like your wife • Have the husband lay next to his wife in bed and continuously apply liberal amounts of lube while you fuck her tits until you cum on them • Share the Hotwife with a male friend (or two) while her husband watches • Share the Hotwife with a female friend (if both are bi) while her husband watches • Go to a swing club with the couple, with you and the Hotwife being the “couple” Page of 16 54 • Have the husband put his face inches away from his wife’s pussy while you fuck her, then tell him to masturbate to orgasm like that • Call the husband ahead of a date or a visit, and tell him to dress his wife in a certain way, or tell him to make sure her pussy is bald for you, etc. • Have the Hotwife talk to her husband while you fuck her, making sure to smile at him and tell him how much better the sex is with you • Have the husband tie his Hotwife to their bed spread eagle and blindfold her before you arrive, then fuck her hard and rough while he watches • All three of you attend an adult house party, with you and the Hotwife acting as the main couple • Arrange to take the couple to a group or orgy scene, but only you and the Hotwife play. The husband can be limited to watching and cleanup only • Have the husband lay against the headboard on the bed, with his Hotwife leaning against him or laying on him, so that he can feel the power of your thrusts while you fuck her • Have the Hotwife flash her breasts in a public or semi-public place, and do it “for you” • Have the Hotwife kneel in front of you and have her husband hold her head from behind while you fuck her mouth until you cum • Make it the husband’s role to “prepare” his wife’s pussy every time you penetrate her. Have him do this whenever you take a break or change positions, and between every fuck • Bend the wife over your knee and spank her bottom red in front of the husband • While socializing, ask the husband to get drinks and refills for you and the Hotwife. When he returns with a refill, have his wife on her knees sucking your cock • Take the Hotwife on an overnight trip out of town Page of 17 54 • Have the husband lay next to his wife in bed, kissing her while at the same time holding one of her legs, helping spread her wide as you fuck her (even better if she cums like this) • Have the husband drive his wife to your home wearing nothing but a full-length coat. When he drops her off, tell him to return at a pre-arranged time to pick her up • After fucking her with the husband watching, have the Hotwife spread her legs for him and masturbate while she tells him how much she loved it CREAMPIES If you’re not into the cuck-hotwife lifestyle, you probably have not heard the word ‘creampie’ used in a sexual context. Basically it’s a description of a woman’s vagina after a man has ejaculated inside her. For those into this lifestyle, a creampie can be a focal point of the evening. A creampie is the considered the ultimate sign of a wife’s infidelity. To both of them, there is no better confirmation that the wife has accomplished her goal than a pussy full of semen from another man. She has allowed that man to ejaculate inside her, which is an act normally reserved for her husband, furthering the “slut wife” angle which so many cuckolds enjoy. There is also the pregnancy risk aspect, which for some has a very strong appeal. Some wives flaunt their used pussy in front of her husband after having sex , in a form of mutual teasing. This can be immediately after sex, assuming the husband is present, or it can be after returning home from a date. Eventually this almost always leads to “creampie-eating”, or oral sex, with the husband going down on his wife after she has had intercourse with the other man. There is usually a natural progression to creampie-eating in cuckold and hotwife relationships. The husband is almost always in a high state of arousal after watching his wife have sex, or if he is home alone while she’s out on a date, knowing what she is doing. The husband is strongly attracted to his wife, wanting to hear all the details about her evening, and to see, touch and smell her after her encounters. This heightens his attraction and lust for her, helping them bond. Page of 18 54 During these re-acquaintances the husband will come in contact with other men’s sperm left on or in the wife. At some point, with the wife’s encouragement, or at the direction of the Bull, the husband will find himself at a point where he will go down on his wife. While often hesitant at first, most cuckold husbands find this to be a very pleasurable part of the evening and begin looking forward to it. The experience literally immerses them in an overdose of the senses as they see, touch, smell and taste their wife and her lover, which can be quite intoxicating. One thing to consider is that creampie eating can also have a domination angle to it, if played as a “demand” by the wife or the Bull. After sex, instructing the husband to get between his wife’s legs and “clean her up” is a way to push you (the Bull) up the pecking order, while simultaneously pushing the husband lower in the pecking order. In fact, if it’s the wife giving him direction, then he is indeed on the bottom. So you can use this as a tool for domination. In this kind of scenario, there can only be one Alpha male and that must be the Bull. Women are naturally drawn to the Alpha male. For you, the challenge is that the wife has an existing relationship and an emotional attachment with the man she has long considered to be “her” Alpha male. You need to change that. The first step already happened before you even became involved. The couple agreed to include another male. Bear in mind that there are many reasons that the wife may have agreed to this. She may have a need for more and better sex. She may have agreed to do this to “spice up” their marriage. Regardless of why the wife agreed, one undeniable fact will be on her mind – her husband was willing to take a backseat to another man, agreeing to offer the woman he loves to another man for sexual gratification. She may love her husband, but the fact that he has offered her to another man, or has been considering the superior sexual opportunities available from better lovers and better cocks, will leave her open to questioning her husband’s sexual status. As cruel as it may sound, your job is to further reduce her respect for her husband’s sexual ability, and to build her respect for you. There is a proven physiological response that all women experience when they have an orgasm. It leads to an emotional bonding with the man she is having sex with. Women derive a greater level of satisfaction from sex which results in the deposit of semen in their vagina. Semen contains dozens of hormones which are absorbed Page of 19 54 into a woman’s body, resulting in a deeper sense of calmness and satisfaction after sex. Use this knowledge to build a stronger physical relationship with the wife. Engage in intercourse with her often, making sure she has intense, multiple orgasms. If you are engaging in bareback sex, be sure to ejaculate inside her at least once every encounter. There are few ways to better demonstrate your role as the dominant male, than to ejaculate inside the wife and then demand that her husband crawl between her outstretched legs and immerse himself in the juices of your union. Tasting and smelling the essence of his wife’s pussy after you ejaculated inside her reinforces his position as a subservient male, relegated to deriving his sexual satisfaction from your “leftovers”. For the wife, she will be unable to deny the obvious ramifications from seeing her husband submit in this manner. Consider her viewpoint. Who would she have more respect for, sexually speaking? The man who mounted and pounded her, leaving her satisfied and filled. Or the man who watched until summoned to lap the cum out of her used pussy, emptying it of the very essence she found so pleasing? The answer is obvious. When the process is complete, the wife will look to the Bull for her sexual needs, and she will be eager to be available to the Bull whenever he wishes. The way forward from here can be summed up in one word: orgasms. When someone has an orgasm it releases endorphins into their system. Endorphins create a sense of happiness and contentment, and that state of mind is subconsciously associated with the person they're with when it happens. When you feel good then you feel good about the person you're with, so make it your goal to give her orgasms when you're together. The more orgasms, and the more powerful her orgasms, the better. In fact, it's to your advantage to leave her totally spent when you have sex with her. Over time, and during the next several encounters, you can then use banter to solidify your new role in her sex life: • Make her admit she thinks about you during the day • Make her admit that she masturbates while thinking about you • Make her admit she couldn't wait to see you • Make her admit she loves fucking you • Make her admit she loves your cock Page of 20 54