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NOTICE : This is NOT a free ebook and cannot be given away or sold to anyone unless you are an authorized reseller and/or distributor. How to Turn A Good Girl “BAD” So, you have the desire to turn a good girl "bad," do ya? And, by "bad," we're referring to naughty, sexy, maybe even wild and kinky. You want her to do a lot more for you sexually... whether she's somebody new that you've just met (or are planning on meeting,)... or even if she's your current lover, girlfriend, fiancé, wife, whatever. You would like her to "do more" and "be more" for you, in the bedroom. You would like her to do all those "dirty," naughty things that you desire and fantasize about. Well, it's perfectly normal to want that. It really is. After all, most people could always use some "extra" lovin... and a bit more spice and sizzle in the bedroom. Unfortunately, most people's sex lives are average at best...and often quite boring. Even couples who are madly in love and/or have been married for decades can experience "lukewarm" satisfaction in the bedroom, probably from the very start. Some people can just happen to be with a partner who isn't as open-minded, confident, or secure about his/her skills, physical body or self. And yet others can simply be in a relationship that just isn't as open to communicating "sexual needs and wants" with each other. The point is, sexual incompatibility is fairly common among existing couples, and even among single individuals who have had negative or unsatisfactory sexual experiences in the past. While some of the above situations could be improved with some counseling and/or therapy, that's not what this particular report is designed for. (If you feel that you and your partner could benefit from some counseling and/or therapy, you are welcome to try that.) The purpose of this report is to help you expand a woman's mind, "comfort zone," experiences, and ultimately her capacity to enjoy a lot more pleasure. And, since experiencing "more pleasure" is what it's all about, we will start there... More Pleasure, For Everyone! I don't believe in forcing people into doing anything that they don't want to do. That's just bad karma, all around. Instead, I like to entice, persuade, seduce and sometimes “connect the dots” for people– to help them to enjoy things they may not know about yet, or are missing out on, or that they may not currently be interested in. Obviously, the above "things" should not in any way cause physical, mental or emotional pain/harm... to her or to you. Remember, this is about pleasure...it's about increasing pleasure! Always keep that in mind and you will be amazed by what she will soon be doing for you, and with you. Her Pleasure As you read through this report, you will learn about some powerful, and even some "sneaky" ways to influence another person. (Obviously, we'll be using those techniques for good. Nonetheless, they are still powerful and can really help you do some amazing things and making some amazing changes.) (We will even discuss the subject of "inception".... Shhhh....) But, before we go over those powerful persuasion, seduction and influence techniques, let's talk about one of the quickest and easiest ways to get a woman to do more for you, sexually. Would you like to know how you can do that right now? It's easy... just make her incredibly happy ! That's it. That's the quickest and easiest way to make a good girl become "bad." (Don’t worry, I’ ll give you some powerful “influence” stuff soon, too. But, for right now, think about what I just shared above. There is some real power behind it ... ) Have you ever noticed, in certain movies, how a woman who is completely satisfied in bed tends to say some “crazy” things? For example, she would tell her lover that she would “do anything” for him? Believe it or not, that is how things really work with a lot of women. It just so happens that most women are nowhere near satisfied in bed by their male lovers. If they were, they would be saying (and doing) things just like some of those women in the movies do. So...ask yourself... how happy is she right now, by having you in her life? (And be honest about the answers.) Does she feel like she has hit the jackpot? Does she see you as a catch? Does she talk you up when she's with her friends and/or family? Is she completely satisfied in the bedroom? Is she able to enjoy multiple mind- blowingorgasms when she has sex with you? (If not, I have a report that can help you fix that.) Is she emotionally fulfilled, and ecstatically happy, at least when she's around you? If not, maybe that is something for you to think about. I'm not trying to make you feel bad or inadequate, by the way. That is not what this is about at all. Quite the opposite. I'm only here to increase the pleasure that you and your woman can experience. The fact is, humans have an almost unlimited capacity for pleasure and experience. Unfortunately, no one gave us a manual for our "mind and body" after we were born. (We get a manual when we buy a hair dryer or even a bottle of shampoo. Yet, we have never really learned to unleash the powers of our body and mind...because no one showed us how.) So...let's try to increase pleasure...if you're interested in doing that, for yourself and for your girl. Why not start by learning how to make her ecstatically happy...both in and out of bed. The moment you start to do that...the moment she starts to notice that you're paying more attention to her pleasure in the bedroom, something amazing will happen. She will try to do the same for you. Women are lovely creatures that way. Most of them have this built-in desire to give, nurture, and love. (It” s probably why they are the ones with the power to give birth to another human.) So, why not start there...and increase both your and her pleasure, simultaneously. :-) If you do nothing else, just start by asking her this simple question (after you turn her on a bit)... "Honey, what can I do to give you more pleasure? Tell me...show me...I want to do more for you." You will be amazed at what that one sentence, and that simple shift in your mindset, will do for your sex life as well as hers. You probably won't even have to ask her to reciprocate. She will find ways, and opportunities, to slip that little extra pleasure in there, for you. Women can get very creative and pleasing when they want to, or when they have a powerful reason to do so. So, learn to please a woman in bed...completely and utterly beyond the point that any other man has ever pleased her. And then watch what happens! Watch how your own sexual pleasure and satisfaction gets taken to the next level, by her. (Even though this is not a report about giving you “sexual tips,” I will still throw in a little bit of that in the upcoming sections, below. Consider it a bonus.) And, if she happens to be a rare case that doesn't (or isn't able to) reciprocate, well...that's what the rest of this report is about. ;-) Note: If the woman in question is simply a "sex buddy" and you're not interested in taking things to a more serious level, then it's probably best to not explore the "incredibly happy" dynamic with her...at lea st not the “emotional and mental” aspects of it. If you do start to fulfill her mentally and especially emotionally, it would become easy for her to start developing strong feelings for you. And, that's not a very nice thing to do to her, if you don't plan on reciprocating and taking the relationship to the next level. You can simply focus on making her 'sexually' happy. However, keep in mind that complete sexual fulfillment can also make a woman start to create emotional connections with you. Driving Without A Map... Another reason that many women just aren't open to trying new things in the bedroom is simply because they just don't know how. Women aren't born with knowledge about "how to please a man" .... just as men aren't born with the knowledge about "how to please a woman." So, maybe give her a break. Maybe she just doesn't know how... Guys can be jerks sometimes, without realizing it or without even meaning to. Men seem to have a one-track mind. If they're not getting something in the bedroom, the only thing they seem to obsess over is, "How do I get her to do that for me?!" And, oftentimes, the only answer their brain can come up with is, "Keep asking and bugging her for it!" They're hoping to either convince the woman eventually, or break her down till she gives in. Both of those are horrible - and often useless - strategies. Okay...so let's assume for a moment that your girl happens to be among the large group of women who just don't know how to perform oral sex, or whatever it is that you're trying to get your partner to do. To make matters worse, her lack of knowledge on the subject may also make her feel insecure, afraid or even stupid about the whole thing. Therefore, she would simply "shut down" whenever you would bring up that subject. Do you see how this situation would continue to turn a small problem into a bigger and bigger problem - for both of you? It's like trying to get someone who has never driven a car before – or doesn’ t have much experience - to get behind the wheel and jump onto a crazy freeway. But she's too afraid to drive, so the guy pushes and forces her till she finally gives in, gets into the car anyway, and starts to drive -- on her own -- without even a map or GPS system to guide her. Guess what... she quickly ends up getting lost. Maybe she panics and even gets into an accident. What happens now...? Well, one thing's for sure... she is not getting in that car anytime soon - if at all! And then a new guy comes along (maybe even you.) And, he start asking her to get in the car again, without him knowing (or caring) about any of her bad experiences from the past. Or hey, maybe you're the first guy who has asked her to do that. We don't know. The point is, each time that a guy will ask, beg, or even force a woman into doing something for him that she’ s not comfortable doing, she will shut down and close off even more than before. So, how do we fix the above situation? Easy. Teach her to drive! Help her become familiar with the process as well as the territory. (Yes, you've now just given her some driving lessons, and handed her a GPS navigation system, to help her drive around, even if she's on her own down there.) Not only will she now be more knowledgeable about what to do, she will also become more secure, confident, and willing to do that particular task for you. And each time that she does, your job would be to encourage and cheer her on. Don't ever make light of the situation or make fun of something that she doesn’ t quite do correctly. How can you teach her? There are two ways: directly and/or indirectly. Teaching her directly is fairly simple. Patiently and methodically show or tell her how you like to be touched, kissed, stroked, licked, etc. (The best time to do this is after lots of foreplay, while you ’ re both extremely turned on.) Then, have her try it...encourage her along the way and offer kudos...and keep correcting and adjusting her technique in small increments. Don't tell her about 50 things that she's doing wrong. Start with one or two major ones she could improve upon. Give her a chance to get better at those. Then, offer more encouragement and kudos...and reveal a couple more things that need adjusting/improving/correcting. If teaching her directly isn't the best option, for whatever reason, you can do it indirectly. (I ’ ll show you a very powerful and sneaky way to do this, later on in this report.) You can share or show her an article on the subject and ask for her opinion or feedback. Or just say, "Hey what do you think of this article on oral sex? Is that true what they say about how women approach it??" You're also opening up the line of communication between the two of you, by doing the above. Other things you can do: watch an instructional how-to video on better sex tips together. Or read a how-to book or magazine article on the subject. Get a book of erotic stories - or find stories online to read together. (Let her choose them, for starters.) And, discuss it together so that both of you can learn more about what the other person likes and wants. Note: You’ re also getting her mind to become “ familiar ” with some of the things revealed in the videos, books and/or articles. That can be powerful in itself – even if she doesn’ t like or care about any of those things right now. Talk about what you like, how you like it, and when do you like it being done to you. Get into as much detail as you both can. Learn more about each other's needs and wants, sexually. (This is something that most people, especially men, never do.) Try the new stuff out that you learned from the videos, books, articles, etc. I even know some guys who let their women pick out porn (pornographic videos) on the Internet - so they can watch together. Doing that often leads to them having sex...and they sometimes end up trying out what they had just seen in the video. (Hey, if she's okay with watching porn, then why not! Use it to help the two of you learn some new stuff to do to each other.) Fear As I touched on earlier, sometimes she may have a fear of something which will make her avoid doing certain things for you. For example, some women fear that they would catch a disease by giving a guy a blowjob (performing oral sex on him.) It’ s a valid fear. She will never tell you the reason why she doesn't want to give you a blow job unless you ask her in the right way, at the right time...when she's feeling open, comfortable and safe about discussing it. If you don't ask, you may never know why she simply shuts down whenever you bring up the subject of blowjobs / oral sex. So, first of all, find out what the fear is. Then, you can talk about it together and try to take steps that would put her mind at ease and hopefully eliminate the fear. For example, you could ask her if getting yourself tested (for STDs, etc.) and showing her the results would help. And, follow through with it. Oftentimes, women will not open up about their reasons for not doing something or not liking something. And guys tend to be so focused on getting her to do it that they never stop to find out what the reasons behind her hesitancy could be. By the way... taking care of these types of phobias and insecurities is vital before you can proceed with using the persuasion and influence techniques on her. There's no point in trying to persuade her into doing something that she has a major phobia of. Finally, if she has any strongly-held religious beliefs or moral values that d on’ t allow (or even forbid) her to perform certain sexual acts, my advice to you would be to not try to change her mind. Even if you do use some of my persuasion strategies (shared later on) to get her to do those acts for (with) you, and even if she happens to enjoy doing them, there would still be some conflicts and unresolved issues in her brain – which could very likely cause her pain in the future. So, simply move on...and find a girl who is much better suited for you. Life is too short to spend it with the wrong person (or people.) New Things... I had once read somewhere that salt is an acquired taste, for humans. Can you believe that? .... Salt! I can't even imagine having my food without salt. Most people are the same way. And yet, some experts believe that we have "learned" to like the taste of salt...over time. We weren't born liking the taste of salt, and we didn't like the taste as new-born babies. Whether the above statement is true or not, it does bring up a very important point about how we humans operate that's very fitting for this report. Just take a minute to think about all the things you are able to do and enjoy in your life right now. At one time, in the past, you weren't able to do any of that. Heck, let's take "walking" for example. Babies aren't born with the skill to walk. It is something that is learned over time. We all worked on learning to walk while we were babies. Actually, that's not completely accurate. Our parents were the ones who helped, persuaded and even forced us to learn to walk. Their parents did the same to them. And many of us have gone on to do the same for our children. The point is, learning to walk probably wasn't "fun" for us. You've no doubt seen at least one baby that tried to walk, fell down, and started crying. In fact, in many cases, if that baby's parents didn't push and persuade it to get back up again and walk, that baby probably wouldn't be able to walk today. Aren't we all glad that someone had pushed and maybe even "forced" us to keep on going until we had mastered the skill of walking? I know I am! Okay... as I've mentioned earlier, I don't like to force people into doing anything. But, I'm using the above example to stress the point that most of us can "learn" to do, like, or even love something that we didn't initially care much for. I bet there is at least one food, dessert, fruit, drink...or one actor, singer, performer, or even a person who's currently in your life that you didn't start out liking, right away. But over time, you started to like or even love that thing or person, especially after you learned more about them. At the very basic level, that's all this is about... It's about helping the woman learn more, do more, be more...and ultimately enjoy and get more pleasure out of life! From Zero to 60... The other point I'm trying to illustrate, by using the "baby" example above, is that things don't always happen overnight. In fact, it almost never does. In most cases, it takes a bit longer. Life doesn't go from zero to 60 in 4.2 seconds. Actually, the concept of "baby steps" is very appropriate here. We rarely make big, giant changes in our lives overnight. Our brain just doesn't work that way. And, when we do try to force a major change to occur within a short period of time, the plan usually backfires on us. So, it's pointless to try to change the core structure of how the human brain works and how it adapts to change. Especially when you don't really have to force a change that quickly. Even if you were to hypnotize someone and shove in a new, radical change, it would cause problems down the road. Competent hypnotists know this, which is why they train the brain to gradually adapt to the new change, over a period of time. Trying on a new idea is very much like trying on a new pair of shoes. At first, it may not fit perfectly. It may even be a little uncomfortable, or too tight. But, if it's a solid pair of shoes, designed to offer great support and comfort, you will very soon be able to "break them in." And, before you know it, that once-new pair of shoes will become your favorite, most comfortable pair of shoes that you own. That's pretty much how our brain/mind takes on a new idea. You can't force it in. You have to start off by introducing the very basic form of that idea to the brain. Then you allow the brain to "try it on"... to walk around in it for a while. Remember that movie about "inception" of ideas? It's pretty much like that. Except you don't necessarily have to invade the other person's dreams to make this work. ;-) Bite-Sized Changes So... now that you have a better understanding of how her mind (as well as every other human being's mind) works, we can use that to our advantage. The best strategy is to break a major goal into, smaller, bite-sized chunks that are easier to achieve. Therefore, you could... 1. Decide on the end goal you'd like to accomplish. 2. Once you have that, draw a line from the starting point of the goal to the finishing point. 3. Divide that line into 3, 4 or more chunks, by making small horizontal lines across it. 4. Under each horizontal line (starting from the one on the furthest left) write down the smaller step (or goal) that you would need to accomplish in order to get things started. 5. Then, do the same for the next horizontal line, and so on. If you are totally confused right now, that's okay. Here's an example of the above strategy... Let's say that one of your fantasies is to have a four-some, or a five-some with your woman. That's quite a lofty goal. And, it's probably going to be a huge change for your woman to make, especially in her mind. So, let's break that giant goal down into smaller, more easily achievable goals first. Let's draw that first line connecting the starting and finishing points of your goal... You and Her ------------------------------------------------------------- You, Her, & 3 More Well, the first thing you could do is cut that line in half so you can start by getting just one more girl into your bed. Makes sense? So... the line now looks like... You and Her -------------------------- You, Her, + 1 -------------------------- You, Her, + 3 Do you follow? Now that you've broken your big, lofty goal into a smaller, more achievable (and realistic) goal, you can put your main goal (of 3 or more women) out of your mind for now...and instead focus on the smaller goal of getting just one more woman into bed with you and your girl. Makes sense, right? Now, you can further divide that "You, Her + 1" goal into even smaller, more easily achievable chunks. For example, maybe it would be much better to start by simply dropping the "seed" of the threesome idea into her head. And then, gradually build on that. Doesn't that make so much more sense? Yet for some reason, most guys tend to only focus on the destination, on the end goal. And, they focus on the destination so much that they start trying to "force" things to happen that will magically drop them to the end of the finish line. They tend to forget about taking the steps that could eventually lead them there. If they want a threesome, they will get fixated on that...and... they will continue trying to talk their girl into giving them a threesome, even after the girl has said multiple times that she's not comfortable with doing that. Well, guess what... there's a better way. You don't have to start by pushing the giant big goal on your woman. Her mind doesn't work that way anyway. That's why you'll have to start with the very basic form of that idea first...and quietly drop it into her mind. ;-) I'll show you how to do this in later chapters...and also how to associate pleasurable feelings to those ideas, in her mind. For now, just understand the concept...and tattoo it on your forehead if needed... ... bite-sized changes help you get to the big change a lot quicker. That's the best way to get her to change for you while also allowing her to enjoy every little step that she takes towards the change, which naturally leads her closer and closer to fulfilling your end goal. Association with Pleasure You may have heard about the silly idea that some people suggest you use, in order to get a woman to start liking and enjoying anal sex. Basically, the technique involves getting a woman to the point of orgasm either orally or with your fingers. Then, as she starts to have an orgasm, the guy would slide one of his fingers into her anus...and leave it in there until the woman has stopped orgasming. Okay... at the very core level, the above technique has some merit. But, there's a reason why this type of thinking often backfires on the guy...even if the woman does happen to enjoy her orgasm. First, let's go over the core strategy that could make the above technique work, on some level... The "finger in anus while she orgasms" technique is attempting to use a powerful mental-programming technique called "associative conditioning." If you know anything about NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming,) you have probably heard of "anchoring" ...which is the NLP term for associative conditioning. In a nutshell, the associative conditioning method can be used to link or 'associate' two different things into a person's mind. In the above example, the creator of the "finger in anus" technique was probably attempting to link (or associate) the woman's orgasmic pleasure to the feeling and sensation of having a finger inside her anus. The creator of the "finger in anus" technique may have also been trying to associate the woman's orgasm to the pleasure generated via anal stimulation (which isn't always a pleasurable sensation.) At any rate, there are a lot of things wrong with the above "association" technique. I will go over some of them while I explain how to use "associate conditioning" the correct way. For starters, the "associate conditioning" technique works when used correctly! And it can be a very powerful tool for you to use in turning your good girl "bad," i.e. naughty, kinky, more open and adventurous, etc. You can actually associate a woman's orgasmic pleasure to all kinds of yummy, naughty, and juicy stuff...and she won't have any idea what you're doing. The only thing that she will notice is how her capacity to experience pleasure somehow continues to expand more and more – especially when she’ s with you. (And your pleasure level will increase along with it.) Now...if you were to improve upon the "finger in anus" technique above, so that your woman would be more open and receptive to anal sex, several things would have to precede the finger-poking event. First of all, you would have to discuss ( and warn her) before you go around poking a finger into her ass...especially if she has previously said "no" to your requests for anal sex. Heck, some people would view the "finger poking" behavior as being equivalent pushing your penis into her vagina without her permission – or after she specifically said "no" to you. (The word "rape" comes to mind.) By surprising her with the finger in her anus while she's having an orgasm, you could very easily lose all trust she may have in you, because you just violated her rights and/or made a decision to use the "finger" against her wishes. She may even lose any and all respect for you. (You could also have embarrassed her, made her look bad, and even caused some mental instability.) With the trust and respect gone, there is very little chance that she would want to sleep with you – or let you touch her - again... even if she did happen to enjoy the last orgasm. A better way to approach the above technique would have been to first get her mind ready (either directly or covertly. We’ ll discuss the covert stuff later.) Next, you would use only the flat part of your thumb (the thumb print)...and push that against her anus while she's having an orgasm. (While you're doing that, you can have your index finger and middle finger inside her vagina. The difference would be huge. For one, you wouldn't violate her by entering/penetrating an area that she had declared "off limits" to you. You were simply pushing against the opening - never actually entering or causing any pain... and yet still managing to increase her pleasurable sensation during her orgasm. In fact, pushing a finger into her anus, especially without using lube, can be quite painful to her. So, not only would you have violated her, you would have caused her some pain (maybe even bleeding) to boot. Oh...and here's something even more horrific to think about... What if she happened to be faking an orgasm, at that particular time? Imagine the anal pain she would experience then! No orgasmic pleasure - just the pain of a 'finger surprise' – penetrating her anus. Compare all of that to the thumb technique, where you didn't violate her...and you actually caused her to feel a lot more pleasure than you would have with the "finger" technique. (Plus, you had even taken the time to prepare her mind for a little anal play and pleasure.) If after the event, she still seems a little displeased with the thumb technique, for whatever reason, you can always say that it was an "accident" - that you didn't realize your thumb was touching her anus. After all, you had two fingers in her vagina, so the natural tendency in that position would angle your thumb to rest between her cheeks anyway. (Sort of like holding a bowling ball.) Right? ;-) The bottom line is, you didn't violate her, or her wishes, you didn't cause her any pain...and...you increased her pleasure. (And you even took the time to “seed” her mind with the idea, in advance.) Of course, you also started the "associative conditioning" process that's going to link anal stimulation to orgasmic pleasure, in her mind. Not a bad night's work, wouldn't you agree? Interestingly, there is a Tantric technique called the "yoni massage" which was originally created to build trust between the woman and her partner, get her relaxed, as well as open her up sexually and emotionally. While the purpose of the yoni massage isn't necessarily to bring about an orgasm in a woman, it has been known to do so. And...one variation of the yoni massage happens to use a hand position where your index and middle finger are inside the woman's vagina, the thumb is placed on her clitoris, and the pinky finger is on (or inside) her anus. You could use the above position after you've taken her through a few rounds of associative conditioning using the "thumb print on anus" technique. The Pleasure Button Now, let's build on the earlier concepts and create what I call the "pleasure button." Basically, you're going to associate her orgasmic pleasure to another spot on her body that only you (and she) can access. (More importantly, this button can be accessed even when she’ s out in public, with all her clothes on.) For example, each time that you bring her to orgasm, you can gently but firmly bite a very specific spot on her shoulder - in a very specific way. By repeating the above "biting during orgasm" process several times, in exactly the same way, you will associate orgasmic pleasure to that unique bite on her shoulder - in her mind. That shoulder bite would become your "pleasure button." From then on, if you were to bite her shoulder in that same, special way...no matter where she was, or whatever she was doing, you would instantly cause a jolt of orgasmic pleasure to rush through her body. Note: If the pleasure button doesn't work as powerfully as you'd like it to, just repeat the "biting during orgasm" process a few more times. Each time that you repeat the process, the button would become stronger. Now...here's where it really gets interesting... Let's say that you want to associate "pleasure" to the idea of "having a threesome"...in her mind. Well, that's actually pretty easy to do... You could start by talking about some article or news story that you read online, which talked about threesomes. (Look for an article online, beforehand... or make up a story if you have to.) Then, as you're talking about this article that was discussing threesomes, and start getting her to think about that subject, you can activate her "pleasure button" by biting her shoulder. And, just like that...you would start to associate pleasure to the thought of threesomes, in her mind. A day (or a few days) later, you could orchestrate an event where she would walk into the room, and you would just happen to be watching a video involving a threesome that "a friend happened to send" to you via email (or whatever excuse you want to use for watching the video.) After she walks in, ask her to watch it with you because you want to "get her opinion on something." Several seconds (or more) after she starts watching, you can activate her "pleasure button" once again, by biting her shoulder in that unique way. And, once again, you have created another "link" in her brain that associates threesomes to "pleasure." You get the idea. There are dozens of ways to continue conditioning her mind in this way, without her ever feeling weird or uncomfortable. And, pretty soon, her mind will start to think about threesomes in a brand new way. Note: The pleasure button doesn't have to be as obvious as a “shoulder bite.” (I only used the "shoulder bite" as an example. The pleasure button can be something much less subtle. It can be as simple as pressing a certain part of her wrist in a very specific way. Now.... stop for a minute and think of how many other naughty and kinky things you could associate in her mind and body... to “ pleasure ?” The answer is, as many things as you'd like. (If your mind isn’ t already firing right now, with a hundred-and-one ways to use this "pleasure button" on her, then something is wrong.) If you need help, just think back to all of the stuff we've discussed earlier on, in this report... How about the concept of using "bite-sized chunks" to achieve any big goal that could bring you more sexual pleasure? (Threesomes? Foursomes? Five somes?? <= is that even a real word?) Or how about the process of watching an instructional "better sex tips" video with your woman...or reading a how-to book or magazine article on any (kinky) subject of your choosing...or reading a book of erotic stories or online stories... or heck, even watching porn together (about an y fetish or kinky stuff that you’ d like to get her used to)... Or...how about introducing an idea in it's most basic form...and then dropping that "seed" into her mind...and letting her mind "walk around in with that idea"... breaking it in...and becoming more and more comfortable with that new, yummy idea with each passing day? (Remember, that “new shoes” example from earlier?) How many opportunities can you think of now where you could use the "pleasure button" to create new associations in her mind...and consequently, more pleasure for the both of you? More Pleasure Outside The Bedroom Heck, you could even do her a huge favor and start to associate pleasure to all those things that she hates to do in her life: taxes, laundry, shaving her legs, etc. etc. etc. Obviously, you would not want to associate "orgasmic pleasure" to all those tasks, but you could just as easily create a "happiness" button for her - and use that instead. Imagine how much more pleasure she will start to get from her life, while she's getting all kinds of stuff checked off her list! And, you would be the one that helped her do all ofthat. :-) And, remember something else that we talked about earlier in the report... The more pleasure you can create for her... the happier you can make her...both physically and emotionally....the more she will want to give back to you! The more she will want to reciprocate, so that she can make you just as happy and satisfied as you have made her. But hey, there's still more that I'd like to give you... read on, and discover even morepleasure... :-) Adventure and Passion Now, it's time to open her mind up...and expand her sense of adventure, her passion, and her desire to try “new” things. The easiest thing to do is to activate the "pleasure button" first. Then, while she's fully immersed in that warm, gooey, orgasmic flood of pleasure, ask her some leading questions, like these... "What is the hottest thing you can think of right now?" "What is the most passionate and erotic thing you can think of right now?" "What is the naughtiest and kinkiest thing that you've ever fantasized about?"