What a wife should do to help her husband in marriage *Navigating a successful marriage can be challenging. Whether you've been together thirty days or thirty years, you've probably figured this out. As wives, we had expectations that began way before our man got down on one knee.* *We had hopes of what our lives as a forever couple would look like.* *Marriage has it ups and downs* *When the relationship (marriage) is at where things are not right. There are questions we ask ourselves. "What can I do to help", where do I come in" etc* _Things you can do to help your husband:_ *1. Show Him Respect* *You might be wondering why this is coming first as things I've to do as a wife to help* *The reason is not far fetched, men recognizes or read respect as love, mostly, that's the way they know you love them* *Respect isn't about letting him make every decision and then going along blindly. Respect is about trusting him as your life partner, and treating him the way you want to be treated. It is also about considering his thoughts before you make decisions, and talking things out and working as a team.* *A lot of responsibilities come along with the words, “I do.” Respect is trusting him to take care of those things he's promised to take on so you're free to handle the things you've promised to take on too.* *Why is respect so important to your husband?* * • Respect expresses a wife's trust.One friend wrote,"Respect won't exist unless trust exists first".* * • Respect gives a husband the belief that he can do difficult things* * • Respect acknowledges his leadership and discourages passivity. Giving respect shows the husband that he can be a leader in the relationship* If you don't know before; * • Respect provides encouragement and makes him want to love you even more.* *How then do you show your husband unconditional respect?* *1. Look for opportunities to show your husband honor and build him up.* *Most especially, honor him in public places* *2. Accept that you married an imperfect man.* *If your husband makes a bad decision, avoid saying “I told you so.” Trust that God will somehow make even his bad decision work out in the long run* *3. Focus on what your husband does well.* *4. Speak well of your husband.* *Don't belittle him to your friends, families, foes or make him feel unnecessary or incapable.* *5. Think before you speak.* *Here, most wives miss it, they believe that we are partners and not his slave make us speak to him anyhow, which is not too good* *Don't listen to reply, but listen to understand the situation* *6. Consider the three T's: Text (what you will say), Time (when you will say it) and Tone (how you will express your words).* *Before discussing something difficult with your husband, ask yourself three questions: “Is it true? Is it right? Does it build up?* *Still on WHAT A WIFE SHOULD DO TO HELP A HUSBAND* 2. *Make available your resources* *Before you say "I do", I'm sure most of us must have considered the fact that you'll also be spending in the relationship* It should not be every time you request, even for money to get matches. *Help him by paying some bills once in a while* *at times it might require that you foot some bills in order for him to foster some projects such as building house, buying car and some other stuffs* *Carry some of his burden financially, let him know he's not alone*. *This alone nourish love* *3. Help in washing the car* *I know most of us will be wondering, isn't it the male's job?* *To build love in marriage, this little thing can help in a mysterious way* *I'm not saying you do that often, probably you noticed the car is dirty and he's not ready to wash it and you're free, you can help out. That in turn save money meant to be used to wash it* *4. Discipline your children* *You can help your husband in doing his part by disciplining the children* *Often at times, the man is not always available to do this things, due to the nature of his Job.* *Do some things to your children in the name of your husband* *Let them know the importance of their father, the efforts he's putting to make them live well* *Some wives will talk bad of their husband to their children inorder to make the children love them more, this is so wrong. Very wrong* *5. Wash and iron his clothes* *Its not every time you take the clothes to the laundry.... Do them yourself at times* *In one way or the other, a responsible husband will love you more for doing all this* *6 Be submissive* *The word submission for many women is completely abhorrent to them when used in reference to a wife's role in marriage.* *Many women have told me they believe this teaching of submission is a tool used by many men to manipulate and control their wives. I tell these women that in some cases I would have to agree with them. However, if submission is understood biblically it can never be used in this manner.* *We all must submit in a multitude of ways throughout our lives where we don't think submission is evil or manipulative. We all must submit to traffic laws or we get a ticket. We must submit to the laws of our nation or we go to jail. We must submit to our employers or we risk getting fired from our jobs.* *Everyone submits to someone in some way. We do so to be obedient, to keep harmony, to show love, and to keep order in life, so submitting to your husband being the head of the family as commanded by the Holy books shouldn't be hard thing to do* *Submission creates a chain of command, harmony, and order to any organization, including the family.* *Its our rightful duty to submit to our husband, by so doing we are in a way helping him* *Mentally, socially and spiritually* 7. *Pray for him* *There's no greater love than this, if you do, you're also doing your self good* *Prayer answereth most of the things we worry about in marriage* *His doings are wrong, pray* *You don't like the way he stays long outside, the way he treats you, talk to you and all, pray* *Everything is going smoothly for you in the relationship, pray my sister* *8. Comfort and console him when needs arises* *We all know that, man can't be man always, anytime he feels down, stand to his aid and support him* *This is what a virtuous woman do* *Trust me, no sane man will want to treat such virtous woman like a slave* *Men really do needs to be consoled and encouraged as much as how women needs it* *They are not different from the ladies, although they tend to hide it than the ladies* *Anytime you notice something is wrong or there's a slight change in his reaction, countenance, instead of being selfish and not observant*.... *Encourage him and console him* 9. *Give him good sex* *Many times in marriage counseling I have found that wives attempt to control and manipulate their husbands by withholding sexual relations. I have seen some wives use sex in such a way as to control their husbands in order that they can become the head of their homes.* *If you use sex in this manner you have taken what God intended to be an expression of love and affection and made it a weapon of control. Behavior like this will only cause your husband to lose respect for you and will drive him away.* *Sex is the is best food you can give your man* _Quote me anywhere_ *Try out new styles with him..... Stop that missionary style, its old fashion* *Now some of you are thinking I can't meet his sexual needs because his drive is so much higher than mine. How can you address this issue? Love will always find an agreement on frequency of sexual relations.* *If you truly love each other you will always find a way to give - which is always the solution. Love will help one partner to restrain their desires, and love motivates the other to initiate when there is no desire. Therefore, meet one another's needs.* *You may also struggle in your mind with meeting his needs because you do not think that he meets your needs emotionally or sexually. How can you resolve this issue?* *Don't say I'm being sentimental here, its just as it is* *If you refuse to meet his sexual needs what will happen? Your relationship will only worsen because of the tension and his sense of rejection. Instead, you should meet his sexual needs and then lovingly discuss how he can meet your needs as well.* 10. *Make the home clean and Give him good food* *How can you expect him to love you more when you're dirty?* *Make his home clean and give him nourishing meals* *Don't always let him come home and see everywhere dirty, he won't want to come home with friends and won't be proud of you amidst his friends* *BE A NEAT WOMAN AS WELL* *I know most of us are neat while we are outside our homes, but are worst inside!* *I've known some ladies that won't take their bath, just because they are not going out that day, this is so bad* *If you're not taking care of your home, his home (your body), how can you help him to love you* *Lastly....* *11. Appreciate him and praise him* *Everyone in one way or the other loves to be appreciated for things we do* *He's your husband, appreciate him even for doing his responsibilities as a man and head of the house* *Acknowledge that there are men out there that aren't performing theirs* *Let him know how lucky you're to have him* *This alone in itself can make him do more. He won't know when he's going to empty his pocket for you* *Men loves to be appreciated* *On this note*: *I say a very big thank you for your time and audience* *To the leaders of the house, I really appreciate it for giving me this opportunity* © *SAMMYSOAR* *FOR RGA* * Changes in people and sacrifice that are not needed.!* You see; You are not God, never in your life hope to change anybody! Allow me to feed you with a small story, there was a man in Akungba (a lecturer) sacked now anyways. If I mentioned his name many that finished from that school will know him. This man is a drug addict and womaniser but at a point he saw a sister he like to marry. Unfortunately for him this sister is one spiritual CAC sister; in order to get her, he started coming to church and the sister beleived she has worked on him and he has changed. He pretended successfully for three years in that church and they got married .. *note* so many people warned the sister and told her this guy has not changed but she said *no* he has. They got married and gave birth to three kids. Three kids then the man started from where he stopped.To cut the long story short, the sister is in owo with the three kids now divorced while the man is somewhere is ekpoma lecturing and doing his parol.. That is telling you that you can't change anyone and never you beleive when people tell you they have changed because of you. *lies* Let people change if they want to do so! If your boyfriend or girlfriend is doing his/her originality you better be happy and think of how to cope, you are better than those in some fake relationship. _Nobody change because of anything_ The best that happens is adjustment! Adjusting to new realities and agree to stay with it. Changing people can take you the rest of your life to do! *Many people that actually changed did so from their heart not because you wanted them to* They saw the need for it themselves. And don't try to date someone and start lying to yourself that he will change in marriage. You think marriage is some kind of security? Seriously? Common you are better than that! Think straight ore, Think straight! On the other hand; Never you sacrifice what you can give away for security! _It's the dumbest idea ever_ I always say this; If you want to have sex have it with full understanding of the fact that you are responsible and you like it. Not because you don't want him or her to go. He that will go will go even if you bring all pussy in your family to him. Trying to sacrifice your hard earned money on a lady because you don't want her to go is likewise stupid! She will go .. if the little you have can't sustain her, the much you will have won't still be okay for her! Arabella asked some days ago that what can we or should we sacrifice for our partner? I want to say this; Don't sacrifice any shit because you want anybody to stay, sacrifice because the person agree to stay. Does that sink ? If you stay with me through my dark days I can go to any length for you! But if the sacrifice is because you wanted to leave, my dear the door is open. Stop giving yourself headache over what is not needed. Again I say this; sacrifice only for people that choose to stay. Don't make any useless sacrifice because you wanted them to stay. If a lady can stand with you for good two years for example, following you even when you are soaking garri, now that you blow, your debit card should not be hidden from her! My idea anyways. She has stayed so she deserved all what she will get. And if a guy stood with you even at those dark hours, when he need you to stand with him you can sacrifice. I always give my blood for free, if I can give my blood away without knowing who is using it think of what I can do for anyone that stood with me. That is how I think when I am to make sacrifices. How well do this person stood with me? Then I go on and sacrifice myself for his or her course. That is my little exhortation this morning. Thank you all © ADP FOR RGA THE DIFFERENT STAGES OF MARRIAGE...! 1. THE AMAZEMENT STAGE: This is the "wow" stage. Lots of new things to discover with your spouse. The newness, the freshness is so amazing. Sleeping on the same bed, wearing the same attire, cooking for him, doing house chores with her, bathing together. Wearing your dazzling wedding ring everywhere, turning people's head at the newest couple around. Loads and lots of fun. Sexual exploration and excitement. Being in control of your kitchen, feeding him and lots more. It's the honeymoon stage and it's so so beautiful. 2. THE IRRITATION STAGE: This is when you begin to notice weaknesses you have overlooked or blissfully wish they go away but didn't. The repetition of such weaknesses begins to work on your nerves and you are getting irritated: he snores a lot, she is slow in the kitchen, she belches loudly, he screams unnecessarily, she won't bathe before coming to bed or shave, he spends many hours watching football and ignores you when you talk. "What's just wrong with this guy?" You think aloud, well it's part of marriage. 3. THE ANGER STAGE: This is when the repetition of such weaknesses gets on your nerves and you display your anger. The introverted partners stuffs it in and either keep malice, avoid you or stubbornly continue with the irritating habit. It's the stage you begin to wonder: "have I really married the wrong guy?" "Have I married the wrong woman?" No, you did not, you are simply going through a phase together. 4. THE RESOLUTION STAGE: When you both begin to face the reality of marriage and acknowledge your partner's weaknesses. You eventually realize anger and malice does not solve any problem and begins to find ways to deal with your differences, both of you begin to compromise here and there and adjust to each other. 5. THE ACCEPTANCE STAGE: When it dawned on you that some things are just part of your partner and may never change. You resigned from anger, abuse and quarrel and choose to accept them, lovingly adjust to them and enjoy them regardless of their weaknesses. 6. THE RESTFUL STAGE:This is the stage you permanently accept them with all their strengths, weaknesses, short comings and flaws and love them unconditionally regardless of what they do. This is real love -agape, divine and true. You reconnect emotionally, spiritually and physically at a deeper level and enjoy honey moon again while building a lasting marriage regardless of the challenges you face. There is no perfect marriage. Every marriage goes through this stages. How you handle it will determine if you will come out bitter or better. You don't have to abuse your spouse or keep malice if God is at the centre of your home and you obey the word of God daily. Nevertheless, do not be disappointed if you go through the unpleasant stages in marriage. It is a phase and will surely end. Handle your marriage with wisdom and keep loving regardless of the challenges you face. That is what will make your marriage a heaven on earth experience. Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers! © Ade-D-Great For RGA What Is Humility? Humility is the quality of being humble. If you meet one of your heroes and feel nervous and in awe for her, you are experiencing humility. To buttress the meaning, Humility comes from the Latin word humilis, which literally means low. If you feel humility in front of someone, you feel small in the scheme of things — that you are just a simple, insignificant person. Someone who spends his life taking care of others shows humility. Although it's related to humiliation (which makes you feel low in a bad way), humility is usually used to talk about a lack of ego. Without wasting our time tonight, I just want to speak on two specific areas about humility *(humble)* *Six Things To Do To Make You More Humble* *Seven Ways To Be More Humble In Relationship* Okay, let me start with *Six Things To Do To Make You More Humble* As virtues go, humility is pretty unpopular. Being paid the“humble” compliment can be worse than when a woman gives her romantic partner the“you're a nice guy” letdown. But many positive psychologists feel that humility is due for an image makeover. Part of the reason humility has been so overlooked as valuable and honorable is practicality. After all, it's hard to measure how humble a person is. If researchers ask someone to assess her own humility and the self-rating is five out of five stars, how humble can she really be? This paradox of humility is why you probably haven't heard of it as a“regular”-up there with gratitude, optimism and compassion - in the science of happiness. It's difficult to quantify and study. Humility also has another public relations challenge: It’s not exciting. We might appreciate the trait in others we don't feel threatened by unassuming people—but in ourselves? Eh. We'd rather be confident and bold. We'll take that spotlight, thank you very much. Humility doesn’t have the Oprah-worthy, leather-bound gratitude journals, nor does it feature optimism's sunny, iconic smiley face, nor the heartwarming imagery of compassion. But humility could effect just as powerful a positive change in your life as the other pillars of well-being. Higher levels of humility have been associated with a higher sense of life purpose, better (self-reported) health, increased workplace harmony, longer-lasting marriages and greater generosity—all of which contribute to stronger communities. 1. Ask for feedback: Humility can be defined two ways, Interpersonally, humility involves an outlook that is other- oriented rather than self-focused. On a personal level, though, humility involves an accurate view of the self. Ask several close friends to be really honest about three things they appreciate about you and three areas where you might need some growth. It’s OK to be proud of your strengths, as long as you acknowledge—and work on—your weaknesses. 2. Confront your prejudices: “The intention should be to listen and learning,” he says, “not to argue or prove a point or confirm your suspicions.” If you have negative views about, say, a particular religion, ask to interview a practitioner or attend a service. Then look for similarities rather than differences. “Humility is all about having an open mind,” Hook says 3. Start with a question. It takes humility to show what you don't know instead of what you do, but one good question is worth 100 good answers. Humility creates more oxygen in the room. It allows for others to participate and come together and make a change. If you think you already know everything or act like you do, other people will check out, and things won't get done as quickly or as well. 4. Really listen: You can ask thousands of questions, but if you don't listen to the responses, it won't do any good. Listening does not obligate you to agree (nor does humility make you a passive doormat), but it does help dial down your own pride. Yours is not the only way of thinking or doing. After someone shares an opinion or experience, take a moment to digest what he or she said before you speak. 5. Accept setbacks: Let yourself be humbled by your experiences, Shoemaker advises, because "if you don't get your boot handed to you every now and then, you're probably not deep enough in the work or the cause to make a real difference." Humility allows you to accept challenges without the fear of failure. And when those failures inevitably come, he says, use what you learned to do it better next time. 6. Discover awe: Take notice of and express gratitude for the world's beauty and wonder. Most simply put, being humble is recognizing that you are not the hub of the universe. It's hard to maintain your self-centeredness when gazing up at the stars or into a newborn's eyes.. Let's proceed to the second part of this lecture; *Seven Ways To Be More Humble In Relationship* Humility is your willingness to put others ahead of yourself. Now it may sound like it's an easy task but it's one of the most challenging things a person should do because it's mainly doing one thing- sacrificing your self-gratification for other people or for your partner when you are in a relationship. Just like trust, love, and understanding, humility is one of the most important things a good relationship should possess. A relationship with two people being humble with each other also shows how the both of them respect each other. *So how do we really humble ourselves when we're in a relationship?* 1. Admit your mistakes: Cliche as it may sounds, but the statement “nobody is perfect” should be a constant reminder in a relationship. You can't expect your partner (or even yourself), to attain perfection because we're all humans and we do commit mistakes. Now it's also important to admit it with a pure heart; getting angry or admitting your wrong just for the heck of it is a no-no. Accepting your mistake instead of protecting your ego is better than making things or your problems worse. 2. Talk Less, Listen More: Listening is a skill that many people lack in today's world of multi-tasking and obsession with technology. To communicate effectively with your partner, listening to him/her is very important. Letting him/her finish what's talking about and listening attentively shows that you care about what your partner's sharing with you. It shows how you respect your partner's side and it can also help in understanding your partner more. Your partner's opinion is as important as yours. 3. Be open to unsolicited pieces of advice: Unsolicited advice is inevitable once you're in a relationship, and it should be accepted with an open mind. Instead of getting hurt or rejecting the feedback, reflect on that advice and apply it on your life. The process might be uncomfortable but it's for your own good. On the other hand, when you give an advice to your partner, do it with sincerity. Try putting yourself on your significant other's shoes, you would feel hurt and offended, right? Say it in a calming manner and show him/her that you are giving that advice with the purest intentions. 4. Learn to accept criticisms: Most of the time we feel hurt once we're being criticized by someone, especially our partners. But it should not be something that we should be upset of. Our partners are not only there for the hearts and flowers, they are also there to make us the best version of ourselves. Criticisms should be accepted wholeheartedly and should be used as a tool to improve the things that need to be developed. 5. Get used to being uncomfortable: Being with someone means accepting that you will have a lot of differences and sometimes have different views on things. It will test your patience and would get you out of your comfort zone. You have to get used to being uncomfortable. Most men would tend to hide their true feelings on other people especially when they're feeling weak. But humility will teach you that it's okay not to be okay, even for men. You don't always have to look tough. It's also a part of learning how to trust and find comfort on each other when you are in a relationship. 6. Be observant: Becoming mindful of your own actions and also your partner's can help you in understanding both of your perspectives once the both of you are in an argument. That way, you can see the bigger picture that would help you resolve whatever conflicts or challenges your relationship are faced with. This can also help you asses the things or actions you do that needs to be changed. 7. Value your partner more: Challenges and trials are inevitable, but in the end, you still overcome those things and ends up being stronger than before. So it's important to be grateful for your partner for staying and fighting for your relationship despite all the things that you've been through. Being humble in a relationship does not happen overnight. It's a skill that needs to be learned gradually. You may start small but it's better than not trying at all. We all have our own pace and the right time will come where you can fully learn how to be humble. It may be hard to do it at first, but all of your efforts are worth it in the end. Finally, always remember that if you want to receive grace from God, you have to practice humility, for *"God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble (1 Peter 5:5)."* Thanks and God bless © Arabella For RGA I am a rape victim what should I do? You see the above question ? Is as deep as the rape itself! So we will be looking at issues sounding rape; Before During and After rape Using the issue I shared with us this morning as a case study. What is rape ?.. In a layman language, Rape is when an opposite sex have sex with the other party without his or her approval.. it normally occurs with force or drug. As a victim of rape, There are some things you needed to work on and get over them, I can't tell you i know how you feel, I can never know that. I am not you and you can never know how I feel, you are not me. But I can help you get better and move on with life. 1. Forgive yourself: The very first step is to forgive your ignorance,stupidity or naivety and pick some lessons. You need this to move on. 2. Be completely healed: You see, self healing is difficult but it's possible, very possible. Heal yourself first before anything. 3. Don't date yet: You can't use dating to correct what happens to you. Until you get your mental health back don't date, it's not safe for you and the person. These three things are vital and a good step to any other thing you will be doing. If you can successfully get the first two right you will move on with life. What kills a man at times is not the diseases but the thought of it! Let it go. Your life will be better again. Just keep calm and heal gradually.. © ADP FOR RGA Single Mothers I want to say this. You were once selfish to bring a baby into this world without a plan. And if you plan it but things went wrong you will be selfish if you will choose a man at the expense of your child! There are some crosses to carry and some pains to bear as a mother! Yours can actually be that your child. You don't have to be selfish about your decisions. If any relationship won't cater for that child don't go there! That child is a major determinant in all you will do.. The baby is now a strong force to reckon with. Every single mother should face their children first! If a man should come good, If not better.. Let your child be a cross and not a burden to you! The baby never ask you to bring him or her to this world! The baby did not ask for all this mess! Don't push it further!Don't add another burden to this country, we have enough issue on ground already! That will be all for tonight, thanks. © ADP For RGA Here is our today's kitchen tips. *Egusi Soup & Garri Burger.* *Ingredients:* Grounded Melon seed, Sliced Onions, Vegetables, Palm Oil, Fish, Meat, Locus Beans / Iru, Salt, Maggi, Ponmo, Fresh pepper / Rodo, Crayfish, *Phase 1.* *Preparation* *First stage:* Wash all of the ingredients washable. The likes of Ponmo, vegetables, fish, meat, crayfish. Then, boil the meat with *salts, maggi and other seasoning of your choice.* *Second step:* Put the pot on fire, pour palm oil into it and once the palm oil stays for about 2mins, put your sliced onions into it. *Third step:* Add the grounded melon seed into it and keep frying until its changes colour into a golden yellow. *Forth step:* Add the boiled meat water gradually according to your constituency. *Fifth step:* Add the likes of the meat, fish, crayfish, Ponmo, locus beans. Then make sure it's properly fried. *Sixth step:* Add your vegetable and allow it steamed for about 1minute and stir together. *Seventh step:* Taste to know if there's a need for you to add salt. *Phase 2.* *First step:* Boil your water and allow to boil very well. *Second step:* Pour your hot water inside a bowl and add your GARRI and keep stirring till it's strong to your satisfaction. *Third step:* Put in a flat bowl and then take a slim glass cup to press the GARRI and makes it look like a carpet. *Fourth step:* Add your Egusi soup inside and then roll it. *Your Egusi soup and GARRI burger is ready to be served.* *We remain your host Aloy and Kimberly.* Thanks For RGA Most of all the relationship setbacks many are facing are simply upbringing and parental disabilities. *Parents have so spoilt some of us that we can't be useful, productive, matured enough to handle big projects and even simple relationship.* *You see that guy that thinks that it is a lady that is supposed to be the only one to cook... That guy has been infected.!* *That guy that thinks that it is only the lady that is supposed to take care of the house. That guy has bad parental upbringing.* *That guy that is waiting for his girlfriend to wash his clothes. That guy is suffering from bad parental upbringing.* *You want to have a will of your own, you must be paying your bills and the bills at home.* *Be responsible at home...* *You see that guy that does not have a will of his own and always needs a parent affirmation before his reasoning tells him that what he is doing is right...* *Hmmmm... God help him sha.* *So you are married and you want to buy your wife a gown, you will still ask your parents if it is good to buy your wife a gown...* *I know why I'm talking on this particular topic this night, it's possible i divert a little bit and if i don't just follow.* *We just need to break some tables.* *When you are a child, it is normal for you to be so dependent on your parents, but as at adulthood, you should have cut some tiles in such a way that you make your personal decisions.* *The way your parent control you as an adult is so disgusting... Am not saying that you should disrespect them.... But learn to have a will of your own.* *That's why you need to be watchful when you meet people, so that you can detect where they have been infected.* *You are claiming a man and disapproving your parents in their own house. My dear, go and get your house where you can dictate.!* *You can't be under your parent without contributing nothing and be demanding authority that you have not worked for.!* *My late dad will always say _"You can not be negotiating freedom for free... There is a price to pay"_.* *You want to start dictating at home. Make sure you are contributing. Don't just be a parasite and be demanding freedom.* *You can not be claiming to be a landlord in another man's house.* *Parents have so spoilt children in such a way that they can't toil financially or be able to handle big financial adventures.* *You are almost of age to marry and you are still collecting transport fare... My Go d... Brother/Sister, where is your wisdom???* *I want to raise a girl that at 18, she must have a working business, at 20 can buy anything that she so desires... "I'm referring to my Iremide"*. *Most of us have wasted years going to school without any money to show for it.* *Listen...* *You see that problem of I am not married because I don't have money... My dear.. This is a problem of pure illiteracy (lack of knowledge).* *We were not imbibed with financial intelligence from childhood.* *We were not taught how to make wealth...* *Most people learnt the hard way.. Some women started being an entrepreneur the moment it dawned on them.* *Some saw the need to work when they lost their husband.* *The problem of most of us is not in what we know. Because if we knew, we will not be suffering in it.* *Our problem is in what you don't know.* *My people suffer because of lack of knowledge.* *You are poor because you don't have the financial intelligence to make wealth.* *There are some things you will know about finance... You will be wealthy.* *Most times, we don't desire to make wealth and it reflects on our attitude.* *There is a system of wealth and until you understand that system, you will be struggling to make wealth.* *Being wealthy is not about your certificate, or the amount of money in your account now.* *it is your ability to use your talent, gift, certificate to solve people's need.* *This is the wealth system.* *The truth is this, everyone is a potential wealthy individual and we all have the necessary capacity to be great and make wealth.* *You can not be thinking about wealth creation and not having the interest of solving people's need.* *Everyone has something the world needs. There is a gift solution package that God has imputed on every earthly being.* *Your ability to identify it, harness it, build it and monetize it will land you into unlimited success.* *It is possible to have a career in something that you don't have certificate in. * *Your talent is something that God has naturally blessed you with and you don't need extra effort to walk in that field.* *Your career is something that puts food on your table.* *Your profession is something that you are certified with.* *The reason why most people are not productive in their career is because they have built careers and are professionals in things that they are not designed to function.* *This is when you are not well guided or well self developed.* *I will like to stop here, but before then... Let me still remind you that you are lucky to be part of RGA family. To be guided or self developed you have many to run to, the likes of ADP, Cosmos and myself and many more.* *We have always been here for you, and for those who have asked to be guided are in the right part now.* *Sorry today's lecture is not on lovey lovey, boy and girl relationship.* *We are more determined to make your relationship a success than ever and that's what we do @RGA.* *is of great joy to have you here and we are definitely not taking you for granted.* *Thanks for following families.* © Aloy For RGA Skills Anyone can take away your job, no one can save you from your skill. Alot of guys are not married today not because they are not over due but because they don't have a source of income. Some ladies like me won't accept a loving man's proposal, not because they are not ripe, but because they have no source of income. This affects alot of things in our life, people start to disrespect us, family stylishly look