MODULE 3: REFORMING Lesson 9: Failure + Faith How to Use This GLOW SHEET: 1.) Watch the corresponding video, then grab a journal or open a fresh online document to do your Glow work. These PDFs are not editable by design. They’re here to guide your understanding and transformation. Our vote? Write it out because studies have shown that writing out thoughts, ideas and brainstorms long hand can be significantly more helpful to the educational experience than typing. 2.) Print it out or save it somewhere handy. Refer back anytime you need help remembering these powerful ideas. 3) Take out your journal and answer the following questions fearlessly and thoroughly. Keep this in mind as you do, Failure should be called FULL-ure as it's full of lessons to learn. If you have any trouble with your GLOW SHEETS, please write support@youarecomplete.com ASAP so we can help you out. Lesson 9: Faith + Failure © You Are Complete LLC 1 GLOW SHEET Think of a time you failed and list at least 5 things you learned from it. If you knew you couldn't fail what would you try? HONEST ASSESSMENT If you're going to play in the arena of life you're going to makes mistakes and fail. Learning how to conduct an honest assessment will help you acquire confidence and wisdom instead of beating yourself up. After a situation you'd like to assess such as a business meeting, date, new boxing class etc ask yourself these 3 questions: Lesson 9: Faith + Failure © You Are Complete LLC 2 GLOW SHEET What went well? What could go better? What will I do differently next time? It helps to write the answers out especially if you have a tendency to ruminate so you can refer back to them when your brain begins to overthink. Let's give it a try! Think of one situation you'd like to assess and answer the following 3 questions. What went well? What could go better? Lesson 9: Faith + Failure © You Are Complete LLC 3 GLOW SHEET What will I do differently next time? Great. Now practice this same exercise twice more with different situations. This technique is also incredibly helpful if you manage a team. YOUR BOARD OF DIRECTORS Taking advice from people that haven't achieved success in the arena you're asking about is absurd. It's like asking your Lyft driver how to get to the moon. She doesn't know. Call NASA. Assembling a Board of Directors allows you to be intentional about what information you allow into your orbit. We're all on information overload right now so being selective is a superpower. Seeking advice is just a form of research. It's up to you what you do with the information. I recommend you sit with it and allow yourself to process it. Then use the exercise in Lesson 6: Intuition Training to allow your intuition to guide you. REMEMBER: YOU ARE THE AUTHORITY ON YOU. Lesson 9: Faith + Failure © You Are Complete LLC 4 GLOW SHEET There are many life domains such as finance or family that you may want to seek advice about. First get clear on your intention. Ask yourself, What is my goal? What do I want to learn/understand/achieve regarding this topic? For example, regarding finance you may want to understand how to best to invest your money for retirement. Next ask yourself, Who do I know that has demonstrated expertise in this topic? Regarding the example above you may want to ask a friend that has financial success and stability if they have a trusted financial advisor you could talk too. Here are some domains you may seek advice about. Pick one and answer the questions below. LIFE DOMAINS Professional Physical Health Emotional Divorce/Break ups Spiritual Legal Financial Appearance Parenting Sexuality Partnership Any new skill you want Recovery to learn Lesson 9: Faith + Failure © You Are Complete LLC 5 GLOW SHEET What is my goal? What do I want to achieve regarding this topic? Who do I know that has demonstrated expertise in this topic? Write down a few people as not everyone will be appropriate or available. Let yourself brainstorm. You may be surprised who comes up. Next devise a plan of action. How will you contact the identified advisor? Lesson 9: Faith + Failure © You Are Complete LLC 6
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