📚 OnlyFans: The 6 Phases of Chatting Welcome to the team! This guide will walk you through the essential 6-phase structure of chatting on OnlyFans. Your goal is to create a genuine connection with subscribers, making them feel special and valued. This is how we build trust and maximize revenue. Phase 1: The Opener This is your first impression. The goal is to be memorable and intriguing, not to sell anything. ✅ DO Be playful and flirty: Grab their attention with a fun, energetic opening line. Personalize your message: Reference their username, profile picture, or bio. Ask open-ended questions: Encourage a response that's more than just "yes" or "no." Match their vibe: If they're dominant, challenge them. If they're shy, be gentle. ❌ DON'T Be boring: Avoid "Hey" or "How are you?" Be overly sexual: Don't jump into explicit conversation right away. Use generic, copy-paste lines: Subscribers can tell when a message isn't genuine. 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Tactics: Soft vulnerability: "I don't usually open up like this, but you make me feel really comfortable." Exclusive tone: "I don't normally text this much on here, but you're different." Compliment their energy: "Talking to you feels so natural. It's really nice." Flirty intimacy: "Imagine us just chilling and talking like this for hours." Example of Sexting (warming him up): OnlyFans: The 6 Phases of Chatting 2 Rapport building + Warm-up Phase ( for sexting & flirting ): Job: *if they work as construction worker then write something like this “omggg sorry.. I got lost in my thoughts... thinking about ur strong armsss... just the thought of it makes me sweaty 🥵 ˮ Age: *if they are 20 write something like this “omgg thank God, finally someone who is not 50 years old creep 😭 you donʼt know how happy I am right now....ˮ Random Topic (flirting): *in this example we will use Soccer Football) Teams. 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Cheeky compliments: "u have a really nice way of making me blushhh. 🙈 " OnlyFans: The 6 Phases of Chatting 3 Creating fantasy : “imagine u pulling me in by the waist... just to tease me and walk away 😩 ˮ Test Triggers (making sure he is ready to move to next Phase) : “If you were next to me, in this room, what would you do to me? 🥵 👀 ˮ If he starts sexting and writing dirty stuff then you know itʼs time to move to Phase 5. When to move to Phase 5? Only move to Phase 5 if: He flirts back consistently with emojis, playful energy, or dominant/submissive talk Youʼve exchanged 1525 messages with flirt tension He says things like: “U play too muchˮ “Iʼd love to see what ur voice sounds like saying thatˮ “Iʼm tempted frˮ “You got me imagining stuff nowˮ From here, youʼre clear to begin Test Triggers and explore upsell messaging Example of signals that subs usually show you when they are ready to move to next phase: *he sent us 👀 emoji which means that he is interested* Phase 5: PPV Setup This is the "make or break" moment. You need to prime the subscriber to receive a PPV offer in a way that feels natural and personal, not transactional. Goal: Shift the subscriber from desire to action (buying PPVs). Steps: Test Trigger DON'T SEND PPV YET Send a teaser message to see if they're ready. OnlyFans: The 6 Phases of Chatting 4 "I was just thinking about you and it got me a little worked up..." “Imagine iff I was next to you in the same room, what would we do? 😏 ˮ Evaluate Response: If they're eager ("Send it," "I'm ready"): Send the PPV immediately. If they're hesitant ("Maybe later," "How much?"): Don't send it. Pivot back to emotional teasing. Prep the PPV & Write a Caption: Emotion trigger: "Iʼve never done something like this... but I feel safe because of u... buttt PROMISE ME SOMETHING! Please donʼt show this to anyone okay??? Iʼll literally sink into the ground from embarrassment if that happens...." Now they are waiting for content to be sent, but we will do the opposite, create a fake delay 13 minutes without writing/sending anything (do not send PPV yet) after that delay send them a text message “ OMG WTHHH... OF is checking the content if its appropriate for the platform... ˮ → this will boost curiosity and chance of opening that PPV by 100% after they respond to that or after they read it send them PPV. Tease them: "You havenʼt seen anything just yet... u haven't seen this side of me 😈 ..." Remind them it's personal: "This is just for you." PPV Description example: OnlyFans: The 6 Phases of Chatting 5 Phase 6: Aftercare This phase is crucial for building long-term relationships and creating repeat buyers. Keep the emotional connection alive after a purchase. In other words, aftercare keeps the emotional momentum going, without making chat too transactional PPV after PPV without text in-between them), also aftercare is helping us with their post-nut clarity (if we donʼt have aftercare, and they get post-nut clarity they will think “ am I fr? I just spent xyzzy $amount on some pictures and videos?! ˮ) this way we are preventing it and making sure they think itʼs worth it. Goal: Make the subscriber feel valued, special, and emotionally connected to the model/chatter. For satisfied buyers: Emotional tone: "OMG my hands r shaking rnnnn.... please donʼt judge me 😭 I hope u likeee ittt 🥺 " Normalize the experience: "alsoooo... what was your favorite part? anddd u never told me about ur fetishes/kinks" → this way we are getting more information from him Make them feel like they inspired it: "Honestly, you just bring that side out of me." Reconnect emotionally: "I can't stop thinking about our conversation." For unsatisfied buyers: Acknowledge their feelings: "I'm sorry you didn't love it. That matters to me." Re-center the emotional bond: "Our connection is more important to me than any single video." Plant future hope (without selling): "I'll make it up to you next time." By following these 6 phases, you'll create a more engaging and profitable experience for both you and the subscriber. Good luck! Scenario Examples UPSELLING AFTER MASS PPV OnlyFans: The 6 Phases of Chatting 6 Before we start, we need to explain whatʼs MASS PPV, that is similar to mass messages but these MASS PPVs only managers and admins can send, you will make a difference between mass message and mass ppv because you will see that mass ppv has price on itself and usually contain more pics/vids DO NOT UNSEND MASS PPVs ) 1. Subscriber Bought Mass PPV and chatter took it from there by making him more curious, you can always say “u havenʼt seen anything just yet tho 😈 ... ready to see more?ˮ 2. Introducing gamification (game/script) t o him and slowly starting to warm him up (preparing him to buy content after 1015 messages during warm up phase) OnlyFans: The 6 Phases of Chatting 7 3. Sending First PPV OnlyFans: The 6 Phases of Chatting 8 4.AFTERCARE . After subscriber buys content donʼt go straight to next PPV, you have to go through aftercare firstly, aftercare will keep the emotional momentum going and it wonʼt make him feel like she is using him for transactions, also good aftercare will prevent post nut clarity from hitting him, if post nut clarity hits him there is a huge chance that he will start asking himself “did I fr spent xyz $ on some content?!ˮ and there is a chance of him requesting chargeback from onlyfans or his bank. So we all lose if aftercare is not done.. Also during aftercare introduce warmup (we are looping phases PPV Aftercare Warmup PPV Aftercare Warmup>.... = this is what we call farming/milking) OnlyFans: The 6 Phases of Chatting 9 By warming him up we are opening doors to send him another PPV and continue the story telling or gamification. OnlyFans: The 6 Phases of Chatting 10 Now repeat the process we talked about (farming/milking), keep the conversation alive, introduce emotional tone, sexting, warming him up, keeping the fantasy on and on, and always bring the price up and add exclusive tone. And just keep repeating this process OnlyFans: The 6 Phases of Chatting 11 OnlyFans: The 6 Phases of Chatting 12