Flirting With Men - How To Do It Sometimes, the best opportunity to be better at attracting men is lying right under our noses. Everyday, life is full of little chances that will help us become more of a 'people person', which of course leads to GREATER irresistibility! Even the most mundane of situations present a way for you to become better at conversing with folks of all shapes and sizes (along with quality men!). Starting today, all you need to do is keep an eye out for chances to develop your conversational skills and self-confidence in general. Understandably, women who haven't developed the habit of getting there and mingling with other people won't be used to kicking off a great conversation. In other words, the thought of chatting with strangers is unappealing to these girls ' or even downright SCARY. All it really takes are the right ideas which will help enforce the habit of chatting up all sorts of folks. So for today, THIS is exactly what we're going discover. Of course, if you would like the shortcut to your seduction success, you can check out Meet Your Sweet's 'Get a Guy Guide:' Get A Great Guy Guide Now, I'd like to familiarize you with the most basic aspects of being a friendlier, more approachable version of yourself in order to make men (and other folks in general) naturally responsive to you. This is where the importance of FLIRTING comes in. You might think that flirting is about making raunchy innuendo. Perhaps your idea of being a good flirt has to do with lacing your conversation with sexual implications and the like. Well, this is actually just a misconception that's given the fine art of flirting a bad rap these days. The funny truth is that you can flirt with just about any stranger out there, whether he's a guy OR a girl! Before you get all confused with my last statement, let me clear up what flirting is all about. It's the ability to elicit GOOD FEELINGS within a person, regardless of gender. Basically, the point of flirting is a basic desire to spread feel-good vibes among the people that you meet WITHOUT wanting anything in return (like a date or romantic attention!). Although your intentions for flirting are to simply have fun with everyone, the ironic twist is that you'll also happen to attract guys in the process! When you come across as a lady who has a natural tendency to make EVERYONE around her FEEL GREAT, then that's what good flirting is all about! If you're able to associate your presence with positive emotions, it would make sense for people to want to be around you. With that said, how does a girl go about working on her flirtation skills? #1: Pay them a compliment Before you start handing out words of praise like they were going out of style tomorrow, you need to have a CLEAR idea of what this is all about. Like what I said about sincerity earlier, you want to make people feel good about themselves with no ulterior motive. Anyone would be turned off by someone who was obviously just sucking up to him or her. It's easy to feel this way if the person got a whiff of phoniness from a compliment. For instance, people can tell if you're firing off a flattering remark with NO THOUGHT at all' 'whereas EARNESTLY observing something important to the person and praising it accordingly will deeply resonate within him or her! Although this seems like a doozy to pull off, it's actually not as hard as it sounds. A smart girl like you just needs to put her powers of observation to good use! As I mentioned at the start of this newsletter, all you have to do is look out for things 'hidden' in plain sight. Greater AWARENESS is vital in situations like these, so keep your eyes peeled for things to compliment people on! The next time you run into someone with whom you can talk to for a bit, try your hand at making him/her feel good with some well-placed words of praise. Don't feel like they have to like you because of it, what's important is that you simply felt like saying something nice for the heck of it. No more, no less! For instance, if that new guy sitting next to your cubicle at work has a cool screensaver from the movie 'Avatar' on his monitor, make a brief but meaningful comment if the situation allows it. Saying something like 'Hey, that's a sweet screensaver ' I guess you like the movie even more than I did!' This is a great way to establish some RAPPORT and VALIDATE his personal interests. Pretty soon, you might be adding more fuel to the fire by saying 'I love how the film gave the expression 'walking in someone else's shoes' a new meaning!' And who knows, it may serve as a starting point for a longer conversation! In this example, all you wanted to do was to take notice of something you HONESTLY liked and gave him props for it. Sometimes, taking the initiative to pay a sincere compliment goes a long way! Get A Great Guy Guide